New Book Debunks Christian Cliches You’ve Probably Used, But Shouldn’t

Image courtesy of Abingdon Press
Image courtesy of Abingdon Press

“When God closes a door, God opens a window.”

The inspirational phrase is common among Christians and can be found on various China-made trinkets in your local religious bookstore. But when spoken to someone just handed a terminal diagnosis or languishing in poverty, the saccharine saying turns toxic. Sometimes the door closes and the windows are nailed shut.

In a era of spiritual sentimentality, Christian clichés like this can circulate among the faithful without scrutiny. We accept them because we want them to be true. But when we forage the Scriptures for them, they are nowhere to be found. And when we speak them at the wrong moment or to the wrong person, they can cause a tidal wave of emotional damage.

Several of these phrases are debunked in Adam Hamilton’s new book, Half Truths: God Helps Those Who Help Themselves and Other Things the Bible Doesn’t Say. As a pastor and Bible scholar, Hamilton helps us see the both the theological and emotional implications of our most common Christian clichés. Here are three that are particularly damaging:

1. Everything happens for a reason. A favorite phrase given to those who are suffering, this one can rub salt in an open wound. It’s as if we’re saying that even the most terrible events were “meant to be.” As Hamilton writes, “We seek to console, and others seek to console us, by saying that God has a particular purpose for bringing about (or at least allowing) situations in which people suffer.”

The scriptural reasoning behind this cliche is often derived from Romans 8:28: “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” The Apostle Paul does not say that everything happens for a reason. He does not say that everything–genocide, cancer, depression–is part of God’s will. Rather, Paul says that God will take even the most reasonless suffering and use it to accomplish some kind of good in the lives of those who love God. Tragedies happen in spite of God’s will, not because of it.

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SOURCE: Religion News Service

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